Some people are against this topic just like these people are against another topic. As a whole, most people feel that girls or guys should not interfere with the others doings. People up north and in the western part of the U.S were raised different than the people down south. Down south, guys and girls were raised together while people up north were raised with more etiquette. We learned more of how to have fun than to worry about who is coming. The way you were brought up can affect the way you feel about my topic.